Monthly Archives: May 2011

Old-Timey Tuesday: LAY OFF ME I’M STARVING

St. Simons Island, Georgia, May 31, 2008

The first and only time I’ve been a bridesmaid was three years ago today for my dear, hilarious friend Lindsay. As with most wedding days, it was a long one: we headed to the nail salon around 10 a.m., moved on to hair appointments that took longer than they needed to — my lady had to scrap her first updo attempt after like 45 minutes of trying and start all over again for some reason — and finally hauled ass across the island to get to the church around 3 p.m., put our faces on and suit up for photos before the ceremony.

Then followed a beautiful ceremony, tasty dinner, rockin’ reception and a boozy afterparty on the beach. Between those last two things is when the above photo was taken. Jo, Sarah and I went back to the house we were staying in to dump off our stuff and maybe change out of our dresses, but the first thing that caught our attention when we walked in were the leftovers from the welcome bags, specifically CHEETOS. After all our worrying, the bridesmaids dresses we had ordered four months earlier still fit, and, dammit, this called for late-night junk food. (And a photo to commemorate this most triumphant moment, of course.) I don’t think Cheetos have ever tasted better. Sarah (at right) just kills me here.

Happy third anniversary to Lindsay and John, without whom this Old-Timey Tuesday would not have been possible!

Old-Timey Tuesday: Straßenbahn party!

Freiburg im Breisgau, Germany, June 2004

I’ve always loved planning things, and one of the best shindigs in my portfolio took place near the end of my study abroad year. Freiburg, where we were living and studying, had a great streetcar system (Straßenbahn), as all German cities do. At some point during the year we learned that there existed a Partywagen, and for a pretty reasonable fee you could book said Partywagen for a few hours of BYOB fun on the rails. Um, klar! I had to make this happen. So I did! And with the cost spread over 40+ people, it was not only super cool, but super cheap.

I mean. You just KNOW this makes for a good party.

At some point it was declared a costume party, which was the best idea ever. In the top photo, Karen and Darius, at right, dating at the time, dressed as each other; Liz and I, in the middle, dressed as H&M (I was H, she was M — all attire was purchased from the “trend” section of the store); and Amanda and Lindsay on the end went for general eurotrash. There were so many hilarious costumes — I think the best had to be the girl who dressed as a Döner kebab stand. This will surely go down as one of the most legendary parties I’ve ever masterminded. Our gang is planning a study abroad reunion for 2013 — now that I think of it, we just might have to book the Partywagen for an evening.

weekend-iversary recap

If you’re sticking with tradition, you’re supposed to exchange gifts of paper on your first anniversary. (If you want to go the more modern route, I think year one is clocks.) My gift from Jon began with this delightful, schmaltzy card — when you open it, it plays Unchained Melody. “Wooooohhh ma-ah-ahahay luhuhuve…” (Too bad he couldn’t find a Tony! Toni! Toné! card. Man!)

The paper part of the gift really ended there — though Jon found himself a loophole by printing out information about the other gift-parts on paper. So clever. (While my present for Jon is strictly paper, it’s… not here yet. Oops. So he totally gets a pass for skimping on the paper. At least his gift was on time!)

Anyway, Jon gave me the card and accompanying printouts after work on Friday, because some of our anniversary activity would be taking place the next day. Jon had planned a wee getaway for Saturday night, followed by lunch Sunday at a lovely restaurant south of town I’d expressed interest in. As a late-breaking bonus, he’d gotten offer for day-long press passes to the inaugural Atlanta Food & Wine Festival — a random perk of being on someone’s media list.

So Saturday morning we picked up our passes by 9 a.m. and attended some of the morning sessions — one on charcuterie, one on pairings of local beer and cheese (pictured below) and one on cocktails made with Coca-Cola (but like way better than anything you’ve ever had. Go to the bar at Holeman + Finch and ask for ‘The Pause that Refreshes’ — holy crap!).

After the sessions we hit the tasting tents, where we were overwhelmed with samples of delicious food and booze. All free with our passes! Yes please.

From there we went home to recover from our gluttonous/boozy morning/early afternoon, then we gathered our overnight things and packed Otto in the car to take him to the doggie motel. (I had to include this shot of windblown Otto.)

And we were off! We went to a place called Historic Banning Mills, about an hour or so south and west of town:

After a short time there, Jon allowed that he probably could have vetted the place more thoroughly. The accommodations were fine — nothing special — but the food was truly abysmal. Having been to the F&W Festival that morning didn’t do it any favors, but even without that comparison, it was awful.

We decided that this place was probably better for a corporate/team-building retreat (if you’re into that sort of thing) than for a romantic getaway. After all, it has Georgia’s best zip line canopy tour — and it goes right over your cabin!

We did avail ourselves of the putt-putt course on the grounds, which I’ll grant was a nice activity to have around, even if it wasn’t a super exciting course:

After our terrible dinner — salvaged by the really nice bottle of wine Jon’s parents had given us for our wedding last year (though I felt a little guilty pairing it with such dismal food) — we hiked around the creek, which was quite lovely:

Lunch the next day definitely made up for our dinner on Saturday. We went to the Farmhouse at Serenbe, a lovely, farm-focused community for wealthy hippies (more or less), and enjoyed a lunch of fried chicken and vegetables picked from the garden on-site with refreshing southern cocktails.

So concluded my multi-stage anniversary present, and back to Atlanta we went. But, of course, the celebration wasn’t over yet — we still had to have cake! And before cake, we had agreed that we would recreate one of our favorite treats from our French-Canadian honeymoon, poutine. It’s not the prettiest dish, but don’t knock it ’til you’ve tried it. It’s delicious! What could be bad about french fries smothered in cheese curds and gravy? Really not much.

We finished out the night (and weekend) with our year-old wedding cake. It held up just fine in the freezer, though it got a bit squished in the storage process. (It also looks like the florist tried to put a floral topper on it before she remembered we had a topper: when I first lifted the cake out of the foil trays it had been sandwiched between, I was worried that those colored spots were mold or something — nope, just smooshed flower petals and leaves.)

Much to my great delight, the red velvet cake was every bit as delicious as it had been last May 22 — and this time I think I got to eat more!

All things considered, we had a fun and (mostly) delicious first anniversary. I only wish we got to take a week off work now to commemorate our honeymoon!

happy anniversary to us!

my calendar from 2010

Were I a good blogger, I’d have written an anniversary post or two ahead… clearly that did not happen. I did manage to pull together some photo highlights though, so that will do for now. If you didn’t follow my wedding blog there’s a good chance you haven’t seen all of these; for those of you who have seen them, I would apologize for the redundancy but they’re so pretty I don’t think I need to. What a beautiful day it was…

If you want to see more/read all about it, visit the recap section on my old blog. All photos here copyright Our Labor of Love.

for those of you following along…

Here’s what went down on May 21 last year: Nails! Erranding! Troubleshooting! Wedding rehearsal! Rehearsal dinner! Toasts! Hanging out with the fam! Last-minute first-dance practice! Read all about it here. (I’ll be back tomorrow with new material, I swear.)

photo by my seester

TGIF-iversary

MAN it’s been a long week, hasn’t it? Last night I wrapped up my 2010/11 Atlanta Symphony Orchestra Chorus season — the concert series actually runs Thursday-Saturday-Sunday, but I got out of the latter dates on account of our anniversary. A week of late rehearsals and some loooong days at work have me wishing the holiday weekend was happening now and not next week. Really, shouldn’t every weekend last for three days?

Speaking of our anniversary, it has not yet been revealed to me what Jon’s designs on the weekend are… but I think he’s got plans. If not, he’s done a good job of convincing me he does. (UPDATE: I just got an email from Jon reading thusly: “We need to discuss our plan of attack for tomorrow. It’s going to be a long, but awesome, day.” What could it be??? I know it’s not far away… Renaissance Festival? Panning for gold or wine-tasting in Dahlonega?)

Aside from whatever he’s worked up, we’re kicking off the weekend by going to see Bridesmaids tonight, and we’ll finish out the celebration on Sunday, our actual anniversary, by attempting to make poutine (using fries from our neighborhood burger joint) and digging into our hopefully-still-delicious wedding cake:

Um, HOLY SHIT that top layer is huge. That’s like a full 8- or 9-inch three-layer cake! We may need to call for reinforcements.  (photo by Our Labor of Love)

On this date last year, all the wedding party people were starting to show up, I had my bridesmaids dinner and Jon had his Braves & BBQ bachelor party. I did a pretty good job recapping everything on my wedding blog, so go check it out, if you’re into wedding-week recaps. Which, let’s face it, you’re probably not. But my brain is on the fritz at the moment, so this is what you’re getting (for now) instead of a thoughtful reminiscence. Happy weekend, everybody!

(and don’t I deserve the best?)

The cover story for the May/June issue of American Photo magazine (for which I can’t find a website?) catalogs the top 10 wedding photographers in the world:

source

So, imagine my delight when I saw (via the blogs) that Jesse & Whitney of Our Labor of Love — our wedding photographers — were among those honored! Of course, I’m not surprised in the least. How could there be anyone else? They’re the best! (And they attract the best of the rest to work with them.) Click over to their blog to read their reaction and see how they reimagined the cover photo… Congrats, Jesse & Whit!

*20 bonus points to those of you who know what I’m referencing in my post title

sweet lovers love the spring

This date last year (then a Tuesday) marked the official start of wedding go-time for us. When I left work that day, I wouldn’t be back for nearly two weeks — bliss! — and, later that evening, Jon’s folks arrived from Idaho and came to our place bearing a fancy bottle of wine for us to save for a special occasion. That was when things started feeling real; like, this is happening! Four days to go!

I think this time of year will always feel exciting to me, but not only because of our wedding. May is pretty awesome anyway, with graduations and year-end concerts and spring flowers and summer anticipation — come to think of it, that’s probably why we picked it. It’s just a festive, lovely time. (Plus, our anniversary is smack in the middle of our birthdays. Way to spread the celebration wealth, us!)

Clearly lots of other people share these sentiments, because we’ve been to two weddings already this month (which is actually a really nice run-up to an anniversary) and have one more before June arrives. I thought I’d ease into whatever anniversary-related posts I might come up with by sharing a few photos from the past two weekends (aka part of the 2011 Matrimony Marathon).

The weekend before last, Jon and I went to Pittsburgh for the wedding of two of our grad-school classmates. The bride is far and away the most stylish person I know — effortlessly so, it seems — and looked gorgeous in an Alexander McQueen dress that only she could carry off so well. The ceremony was at 1 p.m., and then the bride and groom ran all over town with their photographers, taking photos at various landmarks and significant spots, while some of the grad school cohort in attendance went to sample the legendary gut-bombs at Primanti Bros. before the evening reception at a cozy bed & breakfast. Look how pretty!

These are not entirely chronological, just FYI.

This past weekend here in Atlanta (at the same church where Jon and I married) another awesome couple tied the knot. I’ve known the groom since junior high, and the bride and I got to be friends as soon as she joined the alto sections in church choir and symphony chorus. I can’t begin to express how much I love these two together, so I’ll just show you some happy pictures from the day:

I should also mention that I had the pleasure of singing in a small choir for this ceremony, which means I had one of the best seats in the house. I could see their faces the whole time, and it was obvious how ridiculously excited and emotional and full of love they both were. It was a beautiful thing to watch.

So, that’s my May so far. More weddings to come, including some rehashing of my own. Don’t worry, I’ll try not to overdo it. ‘Kay?

Old-Timey Tuesday: a tribute to the push-up pop

Hilton Head, South Carolina, September 2000

I may not have time for posts with lots of words this week, but I’ll be damned if I miss an Old-Timey Tuesday! Today’s photo is brought to you by our senior-year chorus trip to Hilton Head and my desire for warmer, sunnier weather after three or four days of unseasonably cool temperatures here in Atlanta. This is me and Abby, with our sassy short hairdos, doing what we do. I must have dozens to hundreds of photos of us doing similarly nonsensical things. Ah, friendship!

You must see this!

This has got to be one of the most insanely awesome weddings I have ever seen on the blogs. I love all the vivid colors — the trees, bride’s hair and dress, everybody’s tattoos — huge grins and wild dancing.

photos by Matt Miller for Our Labor of Love

The bride and groom clearly put together a killer celebration, and Matt Miller from Our Labor of Love did an amazing job capturing everything. (The getting ready photos are especially awesome.) Go check out the OLOL blog post to see more incredible pictures! Happy weekend, y’all!